Comments on: High maintenance http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml You tell that other boy, not to touch the woodwork... Sat, 06 Sep 2008 07:36:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7-hemorrhage hourly 1 By: Natalie http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-258920 Natalie Sat, 24 Nov 2007 15:55:06 +0000 http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-258920 Certainly these girls can maintain themselves. It just means you will not have much spontaneity in your time together and you will be late a lot. There are just limitations that come with the right shoe, the right wardrobe and the right make up. Ideally, you should aim for a hybrid. One that can ditch the maintenance for a weekend of camping or canoing through the swamps and can realign when the times comes. I have a few HM friends who will not forgo their routine for anything. The good news is that hiking boots are more fashionable these days and come in an array of colors. There is a fine line you cross as a woman to the HM side and I have been toying with that lately. It started by getting the brows done-which requires maintenance. I have been contemplating getting nail tips (not big ones) done, too, but know that will be a disaster and I won't be able to code as fast. One other thing that you should consider as a male, is that your biggest participation in the life of HM female is that of providing validation and affirmation. You will be asked about style, make up and anything that goes into the HM routine. Be prepared to be lambasted if you don't recognize new efforts and existing efforts; salon day for example. As a male you will need to train yourself to make regular affirmations. Certainly these girls can maintain themselves. It just means you will not have much spontaneity in your time together and you will be late a lot. There are just limitations that come with the right shoe, the right wardrobe and the right make up.

Ideally, you should aim for a hybrid. One that can ditch the maintenance for a weekend of camping or canoing through the swamps and can realign when the times comes. I have a few HM friends who will not forgo their routine for anything. The good news is that hiking boots are more fashionable these days and come in an array of colors.

There is a fine line you cross as a woman to the HM side and I have been toying with that lately. It started by getting the brows done-which requires maintenance. I have been contemplating getting nail tips (not big ones) done, too, but know that will be a disaster and I won’t be able to code as fast.

One other thing that you should consider as a male, is that your biggest participation in the life of HM female is that of providing validation and affirmation. You will be asked about style, make up and anything that goes into the HM routine. Be prepared to be lambasted if you don’t recognize new efforts and existing efforts; salon day for example. As a male you will need to train yourself to make regular affirmations.

]]> By: Andrew Mager http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-257684 Andrew Mager Fri, 23 Nov 2007 18:19:31 +0000 http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-257684 Taming a high maintenance girl is a challenge. But is a significant other meant to be "maintained"? Can't they maintain themselves? I want a high maintenance girl for some reason. Taming a high maintenance girl is a challenge. But is a significant other meant to be “maintained”? Can’t they maintain themselves? I want a high maintenance girl for some reason.

]]> By: Natalie http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-246234 Natalie Sat, 17 Nov 2007 17:18:00 +0000 http://terrychay.com/blog/article/high-maintenance.shtml#comment-246234 Coming from a lineage of southern debutants and growing up in the land of "Camero hair" I can say with good certainty that high maintenance is usually visible to the trained eye. If the lady in question has a lot of make up and highly accessorized and over coiffed, legs are free of hair, then it is safe to assume she is high maintenance. In particular, the finger nails are a dead giveaway. If you want to get technical then the equation to determine high maintenance would go something like this: the time it takes to get ready / each factor in the maintenance routine = the degree of high maintenance. Obviously, the more factors involved in the maintenance routine, the higher the maintenance or overall high amount of time even with few maintenance factors. Also, there are some girls who must perform a complete maintenance routine before stepping out the door, and others who only perform such routines for weekend outings or special occasions. Hope that helps. Coming from a lineage of southern debutants and growing up in the land of “Camero hair” I can say with good certainty that high maintenance is usually visible to the trained eye. If the lady in question has a lot of make up and highly accessorized and over coiffed, legs are free of hair, then it is safe to assume she is high maintenance. In particular, the finger nails are a dead giveaway. If you want to get technical then the equation to determine high maintenance would go something like this: the time it takes to get ready / each factor in the maintenance routine = the degree of high maintenance. Obviously, the more factors involved in the maintenance routine, the higher the maintenance or overall high amount of time even with few maintenance factors. Also, there are some girls who must perform a complete maintenance routine before stepping out the door, and others who only perform such routines for weekend outings or special occasions. Hope that helps.

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